Farrah Abraham: Focus On Baby Sophia, Not A Sex Tape

arrah Abraham, a new report claims that you are shopping a sex tape to multiple porn companies and the president of one of those companies claims he’s actually seen the film and the alleges that yes, you’re the star of it. Plus, new photos have surfaced of you outside porn film company, Vivid Entertainment, walking hand in hand with renowned porn film star, James Deen. The 27-year-old confirmed that you did film a porn film together!

Farrah, it seems it’s true that you have made a porn film, and it’s disturbing on so many levels. It says that at 21, your major life focus is on desperately trying to keep or grow your fame.

Ever since the original Teen Mom series, which featured you and baby Sophia, ended, you’ve been on a quest to stay in the limelight. Instead of using the money you earned from Teen Mom to start a college fund for Sophia, now 4, and to help you launch a viable longterm career , you’ve been frittering it away on frivolous expenses, like multiple plastic surgeries.

You are now the proud owner of a new pair of C-cup implants, a chin implant and a new nose – all totally unnecessary. You were already a very attractive young woman. All of that plastic surgery  reportedly ate up $16,000, according to a report.

Despite this, you supposedly are still yearning to invest in cheek implants, so that you look even more like Kim Kardashian.

“Farrah thinks Kim is gorgeous and she feels like she and Kim look a lot alike, but as far as Farrah is concerned, Kim is still prettier,” a source told OK! Magazine.

Well, if that is true and Kim Kardashian is your role model, then perhaps the alleged sex tape is another disturbing attempt to copycat Kim’s career.

After all, Kim was only known as Paris Hilton‘s pretty best friend until a sex tape she made with boyfriend Ray J surfaced and ultimately became a runaway best seller.

You’ve already signed on to be a model with LA Beverly Hills modeling agency, Models International and have suspiciously been photographed on the beach in an itsy-bitsy bikini, just like Kim.

You’ve shopped a reality TV show about your life as a single mom, pursuing a culinary career – but that appears to have fizzled. You also allegedly tried to convince  a male acquaintance to star with you on the VH1 reality show, Couples Therapy. Then, you were photographed at Ultra Lounge nightclub in Omaha, Nebraska in skimpy lingerie kissing other scantily clad girls in January 2013.

Finally, most troubling, you were arrested in Omaha just a few weeks ago on March 19 for a suspected DUI and displayed bizarre behavior in the back of a police car – you were “banging (your) head against the window while yelling and screaming,” according to the Omaha Police Dept. report.

A suspected DUI is a major, major concern after what appears to be your overriding focus on partying and fame-seeking.

But now a sex tape?! And you weren’t exactly denying it when you were caught on video camera in L.A.  on April 7, and were asked about the existence of the tape.

You told the camera man who caught you: “if I had my own personal stuff, that’s my own personal thing.” Hmm! No, that’s not a definitive denial at all.

And then of course, you did get photographed walking into the headquarters of Vivid on April 7 with James, as well. “Word travels fast . . . it isn’t even edited yet. We shot it yesterday,” James told TMZ. “Definitely not dating. Got tested together on Friday and then saw her on set. That is my only experience with the lady.”

Vivid definitely wants it, too! Founder and Co-chairman of Vivid, Steven Hirsch exclusively told HollywoodLife.com: ”We want this tape. It’s explosive. Hopefully we will put it out soon.”

Well, Farrah – I’m not saying that a young woman can’t be a good mother AND a porn star, but it sure doesn’t seem like Sophia’s well-being and future is at the top of your list of priority list.

If it was, wouldn’t you be focusing more on building a career that would enable you long-term to make a stable and financially secure life for yourself and Sophia?

Instead, you’re grabbing for the fame spotlight and hoping for quick bucks from a porn film.

Yes, you could probably make some money from a sex tape, but if you do, would you even invest it wisely or would you follow in the misguided footsteps of former Hills star Heidi Montag/Pratt ,who blew her entire fortune on plastic surgery and a bomb of a record.

Farrah – it would be really sad if a porn tape is now the center point of your big life plan.  Whatever happened to your smart ambition to be a great chef? You did study culinary arts at The Art Institute of Fort Lauderdale.

It’s also sad that the most public concern that you’ve shown for your daughter Sophia is to wax and pluck her “unibrow.”

“Unibrows are not sacred! Do the right thing. Tweeze no matter what age,” you once tweeted about your decision to rid toddler Sophia at three, of her ‘supposedly offending’ unibrow. Poor little Sophia!

Farrah- you need to seriously reassess your values. Hopefully, your parents or a true friend can convince you to stop this nonsense and grow up and focus on a real future for yourself and Sophia.

– Bonnie Fuller